Things that suck about being 43:
#2
Gray hair, facial hair, body hair, thinning hair. There are hair issues. Trust me on this. To varying degrees we will all experience one
or all of these. No one warned me. That last statement isn’t entirely true. My Aunt warned me, or should I say cursed me,
“Do you see these chin hairs, Cristy?
You’re a Howland; you will have them one day! HAAAAAhahahahahaaaa
(insert evil laugh here)!” I didn’t
believe her. I should have listened.
I got my first gray hair a matter of weeks after my
firstborn son was born. I blame him for
at least half of the subsequent grays. Some
of the rest belong to his brother, and his step-sisters, and of course my
husband, my ex-husband, and my husband’s ex (ok, she gets a lot of blame!).
Grey hair is pretty straight forward. You either live with it, and look 10 years
older than your husband who is actually 6 years older than you, or you fight
it, and dye, dye, dye. I have been dying
my hair for most of my adult life, except for when I was pregnant or breast feeding;
I have dyed my hair consistently since I
was 16 years old. I have been every
color except or black. The problem with
dying is that my hair always fades from whatever color I have chosen (which varies
with my mood), to brass within a couple of weeks. Dark brown , light brown, blonde, hombre,
highlights, streaks, you name it, it all goes to brass. Not pretty.
Then there’s the curse of my Aunt. Facial hair!
I realize that there are a number of you who never suffer from this evil
bane. You all can kiss my heinie, and
skip to the next paragraph. It’s bad
enough to have a little mustache or a few extra hairs here and there, but why
are there hairs coming out of every mole and freckle on my face? WTH!?!?!?!
I had finally come to terms with this when I realized that some o the hairs
growing out of the moles were turning white!
What the actual F*@%? I am
conflicted. Am I happy that the hairs
are less noticeable, or am I sad that I’m so old that the scary mole hairs are
turning white?
Body hair, ugh. Dip
me in Nair. Seriously. My mother once told me that she was fine with
the grey on her head, but when her pubic hair turned grey, THEN she felt
old. The second wisest thing she ever
told me.
Thinning hair.
CRAPITY-CRAP!
Another family curse.
My grandmother, bless her, was the sweetest
woman, and GOD blessed her with a permed see through halo of fuzz on the top of
her head.
There wasn’t a lot to work
with there.
I fear the fate.
I started to notice thinning around the age
of 38.
The vitamins, careful brushing,
and trimmings help.
The biggest factor
(for me) that contributes to hair loss is stress.
If I can keep the stress to a minimum, I
notice a real difference.
I guess Gramma
was really, really, really stressed.